creating a lived-in life
Holistic lifestyle and wellness coaching for mothers, faith seekers, and those ready for more
Whether you’re a mother struggling with the challenges of parenthood, on a spiritual journey deconstructing or reconstructing your faith, or simply feeling stuck, alone and yearning for more out of life, I’m here to help you create a “lived-in life.” A life where you can be fully present, embrace what truly matters, and show up for yourself with grace and joy. Together, we can find the balance you need to live authentically and purposefully.
For over a decade, I’ve been guiding individuals through their personal and spiritual growth journeys, combining my background in behavioral science and spirituality with my passion for holistic wellness. My approach is both practical and nurturing, recognizing that balance and boundaries are essential not only for achieving goals but for living a life of wholeness and fulfillment.
I’ve learned that it’s possible to thrive with a little bit of support and a lot of grace. If you’re craving the fullness of life and looking for healing and purpose, then we’ll be great companions on this journey.
A budget-friendly, 90 minute in-depth call that provides direction, clarity and resources for those new to coaching.
Ongoing monthly accountability calls for past clients to encourage and support movement towards those big goals.
Holistic health leads to sustainable growth. Whether you’re a mother, a spiritual seeker, or someone feeling disconnected from your true self, your life is meant to be lived fully, in the present, and filled with wholeness. I want to create a plan for you that’s realistic and holistic, empowering you to live into your heart, your strength, and your vision. You don’t need to strive or live in overwhelm—I’m here to help.
Working with Kylie is something I advise my small business-owner friends to consider. Be ready to go deep and wide in your feelings and why you have them. Have courage to apply your superpowers you may have forgotten you had in all the muck and haze a small business owners frequently feels they are wading through. Kylie gives very clear guidance and real, actionable steps for you to follow. She helps you to see the reason behind doing these things, for You, and trust me when i say You will never be the same.
My thoughts and plans were very scattered and blurry. I struggle with ADD and found it nearly impossible to make specific goals and break them into actionable, doable steps.
I took a class with Janelle Wylie to learn about running a floral business more effectively. Kylie had been a friend and coach to her and had clearly been a part of many positive outcomes for Janelle over the years. I have alot of respect for Janelle's success, and felt that if Kylie was a part of that happening, she must be magical!
Kylie is a fantastic listener. I felt comfortable sharing and being transparent with her from the very beginning. She made me feel more confident in my own abilities to improve my life and business.
I would say it's about mind-set , mixed with help in creating actionable steps towards your goals, both business and personal. She helps you see the big picture of want you want and helps you discover how to get there, flaws and all.
My biggest "aha" was that at my age, I still had the ability within me to create change and make things more of how I had dreamed.
I think it could be helpful to anyone, but for someone who struggles with creating and managing effective tasks on the way to a goal, it is a perfect fit.
Florist
Kylie was awesome to work with. She is someone who is safe, kind, understanding and receptive. She is someone who is relatable but also challenged me in my thinking. I gained a better knowledge about boundaries, communication and honoring myself through encouraging action steps. She was someone who was there and accountable each step of the way!
Before working with Kylie, I was feeling unmotivated, anxious and overwhelmed with where my life was. I was struggling to fight the emotions of depression. I knew I needed help and needed some guidance and counseling to help me get out of the rut I felt I was in for the past year. I didn’t want to be in an unhealthy mindset any longer, so I reached out to Kylie.
I felt safe working with Kylie. She listened and was able to respond in a comfortable manner. She validated my feelings without disregarding my true emotions about the issues I was facing. She helped me see perspective and understanding with empathy.
I think a lot of what I gained from the experience was learning to set healthy boundaries. I had a need to please people-please and try to manage everyone’s happiness. I know boundaries and communicating effectively is key to my own happiness. Boundaries have helped my stress and anxiety and don’t make me feel obligated or feel bad about not meeting everyone’s expectations.
This work is perfect for anyone who is wanting and willing to grow, develop and better themselves. This work is great for gaining perspective and healing. The process is slow and step by step aimed at getting a healthy mindset with weekly calls to keep you accountable.
I really loved my time with Kylie. Even though I don’t have the income to continue sessions at this time, the one time discovery call really opened my eyes to what I truly want and some steps I can actively start to take to get there. I have already recommended her to so many friends that I think would really benefit from her insight and ability to help you self-reflect.
Before working with Kylie everything was moving very fast and I felt like I couldn’t even slow down to figure out where exactly my priorities should be. I was stressed and feeling like I had too many places to invest my time and not enough time to give.
My boss actually gifted me a session with Kylie for my birthday because she knew I was trying to start my own business. She has been working with Kylie for years with her business and knew it would be extremely helpful for me.
I appreciate that it forced me to take the time to reflect on my life and my goals. Kylie really takes the time to help you get to the center of what you are striving for ,which makes it clear on what you need to do to get there.
I would explain Kylie’s process as getting to the root of what happiness and success means to each individual person so she can help you set reachable goals to create a foundation for your own success.
I found the biggest “aha” moment in the process was when she didn’t recommend taking things out of my day but rotating the order I did things so that I would actually be my most productive at each activity. For example, getting into my art studio before work instead of after work because i’m most creative in the morning and my hours at work are flexible.
This work is perfect for the average creative person or entrepreneur. Someone who has a lot of ideas and goals but doesn’t know how to make them into smaller achievable bits. Someone who feels they put all of their time into working but still feel like they don’t have enough time in the day to do the things they really want to do.
I am so thankful for the time, support, coaching and expert advice from Kylie. When I came to Kylie for coaching I was super stressed out and afraid to take vacation or charge my worth with my business. I felt stuck and wanted to evolve, change, grow, and learn to become the best version of myself.
Coaching with Kylie has given me so many resources and practical advice and encouragement. The weekly sessions have given me support and encouragement to become self-aware, grow, and challenge myself.
My biggest aha moment was to charge my worth and not let people take advantage of me. Another one was that I can travel and get away because I am in charge of my business and not the other way around. I am still learning and changing daily, but I have taken trips and am starting to charge my worth and say no to jobs that don’t serve me or want to pay my worth.
Kylie’s approach is holistic and practical with light homework/action steps that encourage you to follow through. It is a mix of business, personal and lifestyle. Her work is perfect for anybody who wants the practical tools to better themselves, likes support advice and a collaborative environment.
Before working with Kylie I was feeling hopeless, lacked energy, feeling disconnected, stressed, and didn’t have the proper tools to help actively and intentionally re-center. Life felt harder, life is hard, but through the Alchemy + Momentum Programs I gained the tools to help me navigate through life’s challenges better.
She has a very holistic approach and it focuses on building awareness around my actions. We would work together to come up with the necessary steps to move me toward my specific goals and then she kept me accountable in a very gentle way. Sometimes setting goals doesn’t do enough, but having someone to hold me accountable made a difference. She checked in with my heart and mind to help me push through to the things that mattered to me most. You will learn a lot about yourself and the steps you need to make life better.
My biggest “aha” moment was building awareness around certain habits and why I didn’t follow through on my action steps. Those moments were all big because there was usually a lie behind it such as “fear” or “unworthiness”, and other false thoughts that I needed to recognize first before my actions changed.
Alchemy Coaching is perfect for creatives lacking confidence, but more than that it really is for anyone who is struggling to live the kind of life they want, a life that serves them and their relationships.
It’s hard to articulate what working with Kylie has done for my business and, most of all, my life. Her calm, collected, and gentle nature makes working with her feel approachable and safe. Business is personal, so letting someone in wasn’t the easiest. Maybe I was in fear of being judged for the hot mess that I was. I’m so glad I did. Her ability to peer into my business, systemize my workflow, and help me clarify the business and life I want is truly a gift. I’ve always been a yes woman, always busy, continually coming up with new tangent ideas. I’m a woman who wears many hats. Kylie helped me sort through those heavy hats, hang up the ones that were no longer serving me, and guided me to choose the ones that would propel me forward into my life goals—hiring Kylie as my business coach has been one of the best investments I’ve ever made.”
Owner + Lead Floral Designer, Lavenders Flowers and Owner of Tono + co
Working with Kylie was so refreshing and clarifying. Her gentle spirit and thoughtful question-asking really helped guide me through my thoughts and goals for my business. I loved the integration of her counseling background and feel like it made the beginning very inspiring. The practical challenges she gives in between coaching sessions were great accountability and kept me motivated the whole way through. I absolutely loved working with Kylie and would recommend her to any business owner!
Owner + Lead Floral Designer, CB & Stem
I absolutely LOVED working with Kylie. She is extremely talented, gracious, and kind. Not only was she an amazing business coach but she had first-hand knowledge of my industry which was invaluable. I feel like she completely transformed my business during a year where I was barely operating. 2020 was obviously a crazy year for everyone and she was such a light during that time for me and my business. She helped me understand how to create value in my business, recognize the value in myself, and project that value to my clients. Not only did she help me stay protected (legally) during a time when so many people are struggling but she helped me thrive. I always looked forward to our chats each week and miss them now that our program is over. Hiring Kylie was one of the best decisions I made in 2020!
Owner + Lead Floral Designer, Velvet Blooms
What sets Kylie apart is the focus on not only the foundational elements in your business but implementing helpful changes in your personal life as well. It was eye-opening to see how much those two things go hand in hand. It sounds so simple, but Kylie accompanies you in the trenches as you navigate the inner workings of yourself in order to show up in your business. This isn't some intangible program sprinkled with motivational quotes you can't relate to. Kylie is the real deal, and when you talk with her it feels like you're talking to a mentor, a friend, and someone who's willing to tell you the hard truths you might not have realized. Her genuine spirit and passion for people is palpable from the moment you get on the phone with her. She puts just as much work in as she expects from you, and that helped motivate me. I feel like I have a stronger sense of my brand, my brand voice, pricing confidence and have finessed my client management. She connected me with other professionals to help me through a complete rebrand and honed in on ways I could maximize it with my budget. I honestly don't think I'd be where I am without her guidance, she helped me get out of my own way.
Owner + Lead Floral Designer, Urban Marigold
I wasn't sure what this program would be like, but I always love things that push me towards my goals and that's what this did for me. Kylie provided me with practical steps to work towards my goals, but it was up to me. She also created them based on who I was, where I was at and my surrounding circumstances. She approached everything with grace and no judgment, which made our calls a safe place. This type of program is so important if you feel like you're on a hamster wheel, always distracted, or not where you want to be - because it will help you do just those things. Through the program, Kylie empowers you to do the work to get there while encouraging you in all facets of your life. I'm so grateful to have spent the last 90 days in this program and I look forward to doing it again!
Content Designer, Creative Director + Stylist, StephanieAbbit.com
Before working with Kylie, I struggled with finding a healthy work-life balance, managing stress, and having clarity for my business. Despite pouring hours and money into my work- I was feeling stuck and unfulfilled, which was taking a toll on my personal life as well. I was surprised how quickly I began to see results after starting the Alchemy Program with Kylie. She quickly became a trusted friend and encourager. After my first couple of weeks in the program, I already saw significant shifts in my mindset and business. Each week, I looked forward to our calls and the accountability and challenges that each week brought on. Investing in coaching with Kylie was hands down the best investment I made in my business this year and cannot say enough about the life-changing results I saw from the program - I now have a clear plan for my business over the next year, useful tools, and practices to manage stress and lasting routines that have helped add structure to my business and personal life.
Photographer + Product Designer, Katrinalandland.com
Before I started working with Kylie, I knew from past experiences that I was more likely to get things done if I was accountable to someone else. Being a new business owner this past year, I knew this was the time to take that realization seriously. What I thought would be a business intensive 90 days turned into a health and mindset journey that has radically changed my daily eating habits, given me questions to ask myself weekly to see how I am doing in business and in life, and a foundation to start 2020 knowing I have set a foundation to build on that will positively impact my personal life and the future of my business. I can admit this all may sound woo woo, but working through these things first is a non-negotiable, and I can't ignore people in my life saying I seem different - because I am! Thank you wouldn't be enough, Kylie!! I am so grateful for your time, your knowledge, and your practical approach to tackling deep issues!
Brand Photographer, katherineschwingel.com
Before working with Kylie I was a little bit skeptical since I had never worked with a lifestyle and wellness coach before. But since working with Kylie I feel so much more confident and empowered knowing that I am able to make changes in my daily life that get me closer to my dream life. Before working with Kylie, I was putting a lot of energy into my business but wasn't giving my personal life the same amount of attention and work that it needed. Now I am able to set up intentional systems in my personal life that bring me more connections with other people and set up healthy lifestyle choices that bring me closer to my dream life.
Owner + Lead Designer, Quill and Co.
I needed guidance and I thought I needed it in business. Kylie opened my eyes to guidance starting within me and my home before I jump to business. It just so happens that Kylie is the ultimate coach. She was like talking to a kind yet honest friend who only has your best interest at heart. I felt so comfortable and at ease sharing things that I needed guidance with. She won’t overload you and always encourages and motivates. I have new habits even in just how I think and view tasks. I’ve achieved so many things I never thought I could and have broken bad habits I thought would never ever change. I’ve learned to be gracious with myself and not judge myself. I never thought I could or would ever get to this point in my journey of self-love. Kylie has changed me for the better and I can’t wait to see how much more I can accomplish with her help and guidance.
Wedding Photographer
Before working with Kylie, I had no structure to my routine because every day was irregular and different. During our first call, I felt like Kylie clearly understood the struggle of balancing all the responsibilities that come with being a mom, wife, student, and entrepreneur. She created a daily routine that was easy to implement while helping me improve my productivity, stress, and health. The most valuable part of this program was knowing Kylie was there, not only for accountability but as a trusted source. Whether you are someone who needs more structure to their day but doesn't know where to start or someone who has some routine but needs help to improve work-life balance, I strongly recommend Kylie.
Wedding Photographer
From the moment we first spoke, Kylie was a reassuring voice. She was warm and encouraging, explaining that all the feelings I currently have are totally normal. She provided lots of scientific evidence for why I feel the way I do as well as tips for how to retrain my habits. The daily routine she created for me was excellent and she clearly listened and anticipated the areas I really need to work on. It both forced me to reconsider how I structure my day while remaining realistic and gentle. I loved how I became more intentional with how I use my time and the tasks I need to focus on. I have also started to work on giving myself more grace when I don't complete my entire to-do list in a single day. Her follow-up call provided the accountability I needed to actually follow her routine and that has definitely helped me to see the small shifts happening. Overall I am very happy with Kylie's service and would recommend it to anyone looking for more balance in their life.] -
Wedding Photographer + Editor
There was a point early on in 2021 where I thought my marriage was ending. After a second miscarriage and the loss of two grandparents, things were at an all-time low. There was no real obvious fault or person to blame…
We will never be ready to start and even when we do it is often those who struggle with the very thing that they are trying to help with who will help the most.
This past September, I made the decision to take a step back from my business to intentionally focus on my own healing and motherhood.
I have been on this rollercoaster of motherhood for almost six years now. With Harley transitioning to school age, we decided to try homeschooling. I no longer wanted to feel so divided with my time and attention. I needed better balance in my life and had a lot of wounds coming up around motherhood.